Late to the Party: Coming Out Later in Life

Late to the Party: Coming Out Later in Life

2025•42m

Documentary

A group of individuals who came out as LGBTQ+ later in life reflect on the emotional and often complicated paths that led them to finally embrace their true identities. After years of living in secrecy—some as long as decades—they share personal stories of internal conflict, family tension, and the courage it took to step into the light. From a nonagenarian to a former priest and a military veteran, each narrative reveals the unique challenges of coming out in midlife, while celebrating the profound freedom and self-acceptance that can emerge at any age.

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ABC News Studios, Worlds of Wonder

Language

EN

Status

Released

Release Date

Cast

Charles M. Blow

Charles M. Blow

Self - Narrator (voice)

Dennis Meredith

Self

Christopher John McRae

Self

Jaime Zavala

Self

Bill Clinton

Bill Clinton

Self (archive footage) (uncredited)

JoJo Siwa

JoJo Siwa

Self (archive footage) (uncredited)

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