Holding the Man

Holding the Man

A love story for everyone.

2015•2h 8m•7.7/10

Drama

Ratings

🎬TMDb

7.7/10(458)

Tim and John fell in love while teenagers at their all-boys high school. John was captain of the football team, Tim an aspiring actor playing a minor part in Romeo and Juliet. Their romance endured for 15 years in the face of everything life threw at it – the separations, the discrimination, the temptations, the jealousies and the losses – until the only problem that love can't solve tried to destroy them.

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Production

Goalpost Pictures, Screen Australia, Snow Republic, John Barry Group

Language

EN

Status

Released

Release Date

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Cast

Ryan Corr

Ryan Corr

Timothy Conigrave

Craig Stott

Craig Stott

John Caleo

Guy Pearce

Guy Pearce

Dick Conigrave

Sarah Snook

Sarah Snook

Pepe Trevor

Anthony LaPaglia

Anthony LaPaglia

Bob Caleo

Geoffrey Rush

Geoffrey Rush

Barry

Camilla Ah Kin

Camilla Ah Kin

Lois Caleo

Kerry Fox

Kerry Fox

Mary Gert Conigrave

Tom Hobbs

Tom Hobbs

Peter Craig

Jacob Collins-Levy

Jacob Collins-Levy

Andrew

Tony Rickards

Tony Rickards

Mr. O'Connell

Lee Cormie

Lee Cormie

Eric

PiaGrace Moon

PiaGrace Moon

Prue

Tegan Higginbotham

Tegan Higginbotham

Gina

Luke Christopoulos

Chris Caleo (13 years)

Santo Tripodi

Santo Tripodi

Michael Caleo

Tessa de Josselin

Anna Conigrave

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